10. places to find a Hot Gamer girlfriend

Yes, there are plenty of female Gamer pros in the world. Espacialy in Asia.

There are a lot of places to find a Hot Gamer Girlfriend. The problem is a lot of guys don’t really know how to approach them to begin with. Self-confidence plays a major role in getting a girl to speak to you, even if it’s simply saying “Hi.” Without confidence they’ll never speak to you, or even give you the time of day. Women can smell fear like fine cologne, or even a nice barbecue on the fourth of July. It clings to your body, and mannerisms as if it were clothing.

Even if you have never spoken to a girl, you can become a major player in the game of life, just by following these 10 steps, and adding your own spin onto the techniques. Before we get to the list let’s go over general tips, and best practices for talking to girls, shall we?

General tips/ Best practices:

Don’t be a sideline player:
If you play Call of Duty, or World of Warcraft, you know that sitting on the sidelines you can’t yield very good results. You have to be active in the conversation, and the experience with her. The worst thing you can do is make a girl feel like she’s the one doing all the work, in the conversation, and the relationship. This will end in disaster quickly, and unfortunately it does happen very often.

Once you get her number STOP TALKING:
We have this problem a lot, we keep talking until the girl loses interest. More often than not they’ll usually just not respond once we contact them with a text or a call. If she gives you her number, stop talking, and find a way to keep her eager to have you contact her.

Change the flow of the conversation, but stay on course with what you were talking about initially. If you’re somewhere that you can’t sit and talk, let her know you’ll get in touch soon, and wait until after 7pm to call, or text. Why after 7pm? Because at that time she’ll be comfortably at home, and you won’t have to worry about her saying things like:

“Oh I’m out with family,” or “I’ll, I’m shopping right now.” It increases your chances to find out more about her, and gives her a happier feeling that you wanted to call and say goodnight to her. Women love knowing you want your voice to be the last thing they hear at night, or a good morning text. You’ll start getting Emoji messages in no time flat guys.

Don’t be an Otaku all the time:
Alright so the girl is a gamer and she’s hot right? But that doesn’t mean she always wants to be surrounded by it at all times, or even when you’re spending time together. Put the controller, or mouse down sometimes. So having said that, incorporate other things into what you like to do, like letting her choose an activity, after you go comic shopping, or traveling to the craft store for your Comic-Con cosplay outfit.

Just remember, she’ll be the best game you’ve ever played or conquered, once you learn to push start.

Ok now onto the list, for 10. Best places to find a Hot Gamer Girlfriend.

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10. Disneyland:
This one is a given, since everyone knows the Magical Kingdom + Mickey Mouse = Hot girls. I know it sounds strange, but besides the family setting, you will find a lot of very nice girls here you can talk to, especially because they will be in the same element that you are comfortable with.

Being in a family element can make things seem a little strange, especially because dad will be there, but you can pull off big surprises by being a fresh face in Anaheim CA, when you meet her. Whether it’s buying her a smoked turkey leg, or going to the Mad Hatter’s shop for the matching Mickey Mouse ears, she’ll love it.

She won’t want the magic to end, so she’ll definitely give you a sign that she’s interested by giving her number, or social media info. The best way to finish the night off after you get her number earlier in the day is to ask where you should meet her to say good night.

If she says she’s not staying till dark, simply respond with: “So we can’t watch the fireworks together?” Trust me, she wants to watch the fireworks or better yet Fantasia with you, and will somehow convince her family, or friends to stay till after 10pm just for you. Just make sure you buy her cotton candy or popcorn and grab a good spot for the grand finale, and watch the sparks fly.

9. League of Legends, and World of Warcraft.
League of Legends and many other great MMORPG’s like Dota 2, or World of Warcraft offer a diverse selection of girls. Joining a clan, or going PVP will help to meet a lot of single girls, and even set you up with new Guild Members. Mila Kunis, Cameron Diaz, and Kate Beckinsale play World of Warcraft, and kick major ass doing it. The unfortunate side is that they usually play without their microphones on due to people knowing who they are, and having fanboys stalk them.

However with the booming popularity of World of Warcraft and League of Legends, finding a local tournament, and meeting girls there isn’t that hard. Trying to deal with them being better than you at PVP is though. You can get access to their contact info pretty easily once you link up for a local game, and play a while. What’s the best part? Now that you can go to college on a scholarship to play League of Legends it gives you a higher chance to find a girl in the crowd at a school tournament.

8. Hot Topic.
Surprisingly enough, finding a hot girl at a Hot Topic isn’t that uncommon. Simple enough, you’ll find them searching for fishnet stockings, or punk rock CD’s. Even anime memorabilia can be found at Hot Topic, and usually weekends are when you want to frequent the shop. Gothic Lolita girls are just nerdy gamer girls dressed in black.

The tradeoff for Hot Topic, is that you’ll find yourself grabbing a graphic art T-shirt while mingling for a hot girl to talk to. Usually they’re not as scary to approach as you think, the tattoo sleeve she has, is a extension of her personality, and you’ll be surprised to listen to the stories behind their origins.

7. Community College:
As bad as this may sound it’s completely true. I dated a fan girl who went to college to learn Japanese thinking she could move there and be accepted, and it didn’t work out very well for her. Many fan girls often take language courses at local community colleges, because it’s cost effective, and they dream of going to the country of origin; most often Japan.

Pursuing a career in voice acting is usually the goal of young fan girls, so they take language courses to try to study abroad, and land a job being a voice actor. What you get out of the deal is a great girl who can make you a Bento box, and say amusing things in Japanese. If you’re lucky you may even get her to make you a paper crane, and the occasional cosplay modeling session before you go to the local convention.

6. Movie theatres:
You may not know it, but where there is a mall, there’s a food court, and Movie theatres. It doesn’t always matter what movie you go to see, but of course there are the occasional one’s you want to watch for to ensure ladies will be present.

Kids movies:
Remember Frozen? Of course you do, that catchy little song “Let it go,” not only captured the hearts of millions of little princesses, it made the sleeper hit blow up overnight. We can also thank Maleficent for doing the same. One of the best things about Disney movies is that they always guarantee that an older sister will be with the younger one, sometimes even a mom. Grab a young relative or a grandparent and get on to the flick.

Scary movies:
Insidious 2 and Oculus were two of the scariest movies to grace the silver screen in the last 3 years. I’d only say that the Conjuring was scarier than Oculus only because of the plot twists. Either way, going to a scary movie with no expectation of finding a single girl, will reap great results, in a lot of surprising ways.

5. Deviant art
This website usually connects people looking for an artist, or even, a graphic designer to be hired. You wouldn’t really expect to find people dating on the site at all, and yet they do. The best thing is, you can follow their posts, in a journalistic fashion, and even send them messages to find out more about them. You can check out their websites, and social media profiles just to see what they’re all about.

Girls usually occupy a vast majority of the site, and won’t turn down talking to you if you have something relevant to speak on. The good thing is that their profile will tell you what they’re into, and can definitely give you the 1-Up you need to introduce yourself. The greatest part is, if you’re in the market for a girlfriend, and a business partner you’ve found your home base of operations.

4. Renaissance Faire/ L.A.R.P events
This is a goldmine for finding girls who definitely want to see your creative side. Renaissance Faire and L.A.R.P (Live action role playing) events is the best spot to find girls who are brainy, and artistic. Out of about every 10 girls who come 8 of them made their own costume, or are aspiring actresses. It’s pretty awesome to take in the scenery, and get to battle it out with a Valkyrie warrior who wants to steal your mead.

The plus side is that the ladies who go are usually local, and are looking to have a great time, and enjoy a lot of good food and classical music. You can chat any of them up with no problem usually, simply by complimenting them on their choice of garb, and inquiring about how to get your own made. Bingo, you have an opening to ask for her number, or better yet spend the rest of the faire together talking, and learning about each other.

3. Comic Book stores.
While this is an obvious given, a lot of guys don’t actually know how often women come in here to shop for themselves. The great thing about them coming in is you’ll know when you see a fresh face, depending upon how often you frequent the location. You will have pretty stiff competition depending upon what her selection yields when she comes up to the register. So for this reason, it may pay off to be pretty tight with the cashier, or shop owner to see what she chose.

I know what you’re thinking “That’s stalking, and weird.” I’ll be the first one to say it; don’t hunters do the same thing when they’re trying to find a deer? What about the FBI when you download illegal songs? They all do their homework, so that they are better prepared for the ensuing battle. In your case it just happens to be a battle of hearts, and minds.

You can also use the opportunity to introduce your expertise upon comics, and rare facts she may not know about. For instance, Spider-Man fans would be surprised to know in the original comic Gwen Stacy was Peter Parker’s love BEFORE Mary Jane even came into the picture. And Peter Parkers daughter May “Mayday” Parker became Spider-Girl, and later the Scarlet Spider, but her canon was reset when he made a deal with the devil to resurrect his Aunt May Parker erasing her from existence.

Girls love tiny tidbits of information like this, especially because they fall in love with the plot, and theme of the comic more than we do. As men generally speaking we go for the action, silliness, and the story. Remember when Soul Eater was the new hottest thing? Of course you do. But with Manga, Anime, and even Comics resetting themselves for newer generations, many women are being left behind, due to the demographic shifting back towards men. However with Sailor Moon being rebooted soon this could balance things back out.

2. Conventions and Expo’s
Yeah I know what you’re thinking how is this number 2? The reason is as ever clear as I have listed 3-10. While conventions do serve as a great playing field to score a touchdown with a lot of hot girls, and maybe a few working at the booths, (Not booth babes, they’ll never talk back, they’re high class hoe’s, and not worth the time) or the convention floor.

The benefit of getting into the convention or even going to the free parties some of the developers throw is that you can always find a girl or two lingering, not talking to anyone. 9 times out of 10 they don’t want to talk to anyone, but you can always use your charm to break them out of their shells. The reason girls dress up for cosplay (beside the fact they love the character) is because they are insecure with their own personality.

It’s true, (again reaching from personal experience) they feel empowered, and fully in control when they dress as Rosalina from Super Mario Bros. or Bayonetta. If you decide to dress up, or are going in with a media pass, grab one and ask her if she wants to go behind the scenes to see the media side.

As strange as it sounds, this creates a first date scenario, which puts you at the advantage, because you’re in control of the situation. It creates a lightning fast bond with her that won’t be severed so easily, and you can always connect better later as you travel throughout the convention. Now this next part is essential remember these steps:

Be interested:
Don’t just listen passively actually remember pertinent facts so you can recall them later, if she asks you something. I’ll be honest sometimes the conversation can go on a tangent you don’t want to go into, but you can control the direction of the conversation by interjecting when it becomes drawn out.

Offer a change of scenery:
If she came with friends there’s no way in hell she’s going to abandon them for you. However if she’s from out of town you can ask if she wants to grab something to eat after the convention closes for the day. It’ll give you a chance to see how nice she cleans up, and how well you can dress to compliment her. Of course she may just do the T-shirt and jeans route, and leave you looking stupid for dressing up. Either way try to make it a great first impression, take her to a nice place and speak more.

Seal the deal:
You’re only going to get one shot meeting a girl at a convention, and at all costs you have to hit your target if you want her to be yours. Cheesiness will help you out a lot; especially if you quote anime’s just to get laughs. I don’t know why exactly, but it does work quite well. If you match this with her curiosity for exploration, you will find yourself with a very open book worth reading. So read it, remember she’s just as nervous as you are, if not more, but be brave because a closed mouth won’t get fed guys.

1. Electronics stores:
Believe it or not, this is the number one spot to find single, hot nerdy girls. Why? Because whether they’re looking for the new Boxset of Bleach, Outlaw Star, or the HD version of Kingdom Hearts 1.5 remix, they’re here. It doesn’t matter if it’s Gamestop (I used to work here) , or Best Buy, I know for a fact that they’re always there, and if you know when to drop in you’ll find them, and can chat it up with them depending on why they’re there.

Usually girls go to electronics stores simply to find a game or a gift for a male relative, or friend. The benefit if you work there, or frequently stop in, is that you can don the Superman cape and swoop in to save the day, and be her hero. It may not seem like much since you only have a 2-3 minute window to steer the conversation in the direction you need it to be in, but you can definitely boost your confidence by doing the following:

Balls of Steel:
Duke Nukem was fearless, and you should be too. If you’re scared to step up to the plate, you have to remember someone else will, and they’ll smash the homerun and win the ball game. Don’t stress the approach let it be casual, and observe everything you before you make a move.

Get or Give something:
If she uses you to consult for the item as a stranger, simply ask “Well who’s it for?” This lets you know if she’s taken or not, if she answers cousin, or relative, ask: “Well what does your boyfriend play?” Even though it sounds like you’re making conversation to her, she’s giving you all the information you need to make your next move. If she gives you all the green lights, introduce your influence to her: “Can I be honest with you?” “I highly recommend…”and the classic “I’ll wear the Superman cape for you.”

Women love honesty, it’s what makes them trust, and care completely about anything anyone says. If you look her in the eye and ask that question, she’s going to want to know. By highly recommending something, she’ll listen to your suggestion, since she couldn’t really draw a conclusion herself. Not saying she couldn’t, she just needed another opinion, and “Highly recommending something,” she’ll be more inclined to take your suggestion.

Ok I’ll be honest the “Superman cape” line is just to break any tension that may have been created. She’ll laugh, since it’ll make her think of a strong guy (You) swooping in to save the day (Hers). The best thing to do is laugh lightly, don’t giggle or snicker, since she’ll think you were poking fun at her. So now she’s looking at you with “That look,” take over and walk with her to the register, or around the store.

After she’s getting ready to leave (whether you work there or not) give her a card, or paper with your number, and tell her if she has any questions or curiosities call or text you anytime. Bingo, she’ll contact you, or search your social media to find you.

Well that’s the list, aside from a few other places that don’t have true impact due to the environment, it’s pretty accurate. In time you’ll find your own way to win a girls heart, but remember it begins and ends with two things: Self-confidence, and 3 deep breaths.

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